The customer was a young women in her 20’s. She was a little bit chubby and wore tight fitting jeans. She also wore a short t-shirt so her belly, which was a bit big for her jeans, was showing. This was the normal fashion at the time. There were other girls, customers, with jeans that fit, who wore this fashion but this young boy didn’t seem to notice them. He only wanted to flirt with one girl, the one with the jeans that didn’t seem to quite fit her.
She was a lovely girl, friendly and polite, however I still wanted to know what could he see in her that he couldn’t see in the others? I had become friends with this young man, so I asked him. “Oh that is easy” he replied. “She has confidence.”
I asked him to explain further. He said he liked this young women because she was confident enough to not hide her belly. She was comfortable in her own skin and he liked that. He told me that a women who shows confidence is sexy, that this is more important than anything else. He told me that women who ooze confidence without arrogance, without being full of themselves, will always attract the most men and keep their man.
I have since been fascinated with the topic of confidence and I have often wondered, how much does confidence have to do with our sex appeal?
Now I am no expert on what men find attractive but I will say that I believe there is truth in this. I believe the same applies to the attractiveness of men. The majority of women want their man to be confident.
I want to know what you think.
Do you think that confidence equals sexy?